Modern-Classic Wedding Ceremony

approximate length of ceremony without readings or unity rituals – 15 minutes

approximate length of ceremony with readings or unity rituals – 20-30 minutes

Processional

Welcome

Dearly beloved, and honored guests,
we are gathered here today to witness and celebrate one of life’s greatest unions — the marriage of [Partner 1] and [Partner 2].

Marriage is one of the most profound and joyful human experiences. It is a promise made in the presence of those who mean the most to us. Today, [Partner 1] and [Partner 2] stand before you, ready to take this step, not as individuals alone, but as partners who choose each other fully and freely.

Though we often think of marriage as a milestone, it is more than that. It is a journey. It is the act of two people choosing, day after day, to share in laughter, to shoulder challenges, and to walk side by side in life’s unfolding story.

We recognize that this moment is not theirs alone. Each of you, gathered here, has played an important role in their lives. You have shaped them, supported them, and walked with them to this day. By your presence, you now surround them with love, affirming that you will continue to encourage and stand with them in the years ahead.

So let us celebrate this day — a day of joy, a day of hope, and above all, a day of love. Today, we witness not only the joining of hands, but also the joining of hearts and lives.

Acknowledgement of Family and Friends

Marriage is not only the union of two people, but also the joining of families and communities.

We honor the parents, family members, and friends who have shaped [Partner 1] and [Partner 2] into who they are today.

We also take a moment to remember those loved ones who are not able to be here physically, but whose spirits are present with us in love.

(Optional: brief moment of silence.)

Readings or Reflections - Optional

Declaration of Intent “I Do’s”

Recognizing the love you share and the commitment you are making today, do you freely and joyfully choose to unite your lives in marriage?”

Vows (option to write and read own vows here, read or respond after the officiant)

I, [Partner 1], choose you, [Partner 2], to be my partner and my love.
I promise to stand with you in all things:
to listen, to care, and to encourage you always.
I will laugh with you, cry with you, and grow with you,
as your best friend and lifelong companion.
From this day forward, I give you my heart and my love,
for all the days of my life.

Ring Exchange

These rings are a symbol of your continued love and commitment. When you look at your ring, let it be a reminder that this bountiful love is a choice you make each day, to nurture and grow together. Let them remind you that your partner is always with you, in body and spirit.

Officiant to Partner 1:

Please place this ring on [Partner 2]’s finger and repeat after me.  

I give you this ring,

As a symbol of my deep and unconditional love. 

I promise to devote myself to you, 

To honor, and cherish you 

From now until the end of life.”

Partner 1 places the ring and repeats each line.

Officiant to Partner 2:

Please place this ring on [Partner 1]’s finger and repeat after me.  

I give you this ring,

As a symbol of my deep and unconditional love. 

I promise to devote myself to you, 

To honor, and cherish you 

From now until the end of life.

Partner 2 places the ring and repeats each line.

Unity Ritual – Optional

Pronouncement

May this day be the beginning of a long, joyful adventure together. May you continue to choose each other, again and again, in the days and years to come.  May your love shine brightly, inspiring all of us who are lucky enough to witness it.  Go now, as partners in love, and begin this next chapter of your journey.

By the power vested in me and surrounded by the love of your family and friends, it is my great joy to now pronounce you married. You may seal your vows with a kiss!

It is my honor and joy to introduce, for the very first time [Partner 1] and [Partner 2] as a married couple.

Recessional